I have this soft, pigmented (it’s a white, raised keloid scar) right on the border of my bottom lip/like right next to my lip due to a very nasty infection from accidentally biting my lip. But now it has tanked my confidence because looking at my lips the bumpy scar tissue right next to it sticks out and I don’t know what to do. I’ve already struggled enough with self esteem issues, acne, scars, and not being “pretty enough” like other girls struggle with. Unless they were blessed LOL. I’ve tried every scar cream, lotion, treatment under the sun BESIDES surgery because I cannot afford it. Is there any way out of this constant struggle ? How can I force my insurance to pay for it ? If any of you have had a small scar removed/excised how much did it cost so I know what to expect to pay? Btw my insurance is BlueCross/BlueShield :///// I’m trying to save up so I can get my confidence back but I am also afraid they won’t be able to fix it because it’s on the corner of my lip. And keloids grow back too. I just want them to fix it or at least make it look better than it looks. I fucking hate my appearance because of it. Sorry to be a doomer I just thought maybe someone could help me if they’ve been through a similar situation. :/
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It sounds like if it wasn't this scar that you hyper focused on, it'd be something else.
I'm gonna let you know a secret about men - we love the imperfections. We love tooth gaps and snaggleteeth and weird moles and shit like that. A little imperfect mark makes women more beautiful to us. Just work on yourself, find a good man, and try not to focus on conditional things like "life would be so perfect, if only..."
I have a perfect man and he tells me this scar doesn’t matter but as a woman, I can’t help but focus on all the negatives about my face :( but I do love him and he’s absolutely perfect so I try to see from his point of view <3