I couldn't have children either Bjorn. You are not alone there. Some days it makes me very sad and other days very glad. I would not want a child to have to deal with any of this.
I'm sorry to hear that. My choice was finalized in my early 40's. We actually were offered a child by a tenant of ours who got pregnant. She wanted an open adoption but we so taken aback by the whole situation that we didn't even seriously consider it. The mother and the baby are just fine as are the parents who adopted the baby so all things worked out well for all parties. Now we've watched WAY too much of the ID channel and are glad we didn't, lol. Both of our lineages will essentially die with us too. Adoption is always an option for you should you strongly desire a child. All the best to you in whatever you decide.
I couldn't have children either Bjorn. You are not alone there. Some days it makes me very sad and other days very glad. I would not want a child to have to deal with any of this.
I'm sorry to hear that. My choice was finalized in my early 40's. We actually were offered a child by a tenant of ours who got pregnant. She wanted an open adoption but we so taken aback by the whole situation that we didn't even seriously consider it. The mother and the baby are just fine as are the parents who adopted the baby so all things worked out well for all parties. Now we've watched WAY too much of the ID channel and are glad we didn't, lol. Both of our lineages will essentially die with us too. Adoption is always an option for you should you strongly desire a child. All the best to you in whatever you decide.