My sincere condolences. Unexpected death can be hard. I'm personally dealing with the unexpected death of my beloved spouse. It's taken me a while to really understand that no one really dies; their energy is transformed from corporeal to non-physical. That by focusing on the happier moments, on remembering the joy of our union, I find comfort. Plus the fact I think I'm being haunted (in a good way). Why these thing happen, I cannot say. But I know I have no control over the death process. And rather beat myself up over something which I cannot control, I decided it was easier to accept that God needed my spouse more than I did.
My sincere condolences. Unexpected death can be hard. I'm personally dealing with the unexpected death of my beloved spouse. It's taken me a while to really understand that no one really dies; their energy is transformed from corporeal to non-physical. That by focusing on the happier moments, on remembering the joy of our union, I find comfort. Plus the fact I think I'm being haunted (in a good way). Why these thing happen, I cannot say. But I know I have no control over the death process. And rather beat myself up over something which I cannot control, I decided it was easier to accept that God needed my spouse more than I did.