Once upon a time a gay man might have been ashamed to come out. Then the society at large said, no dude it's cool if your gay, you do you.
Then they came out of the closet and proudly stated I am a gay man or I am a gay woman hear me roar.
Maybe not my cup of tea but again, good on ya, mate! You do you.
But then the smallest subset of individuals ,who actually were born with both genitalia said, hey what about us? So society said, wow, that is out of the norm we will call it hermaphroditic.
Biologically speaking here we see three groups of people that still only encompass two genders, male and female. One small subsect is genuinely both genders and those select few were allowed to choose what gender they identified as, even though they were clearly both.
Then a small group of gay men and gay women got super jealous of the blessed few who indeed where both genders, who got to choose how they wished to identify. It was no longer good enough to accepted by society as gay. Society at large accepted the gay man and the gay woman, in fact it rarely raised an eyebrow.
Well, we can't have that, there is no controversy in just being gay anymore, we must take it to the next level.
They cried and cried that it is not fair to be labeled by their genitalia and demanded more options, like a newer version of a video game that has better shoes and weapons to choose from.
In the end it was all a bunch of selfish ego driven madness, culminating in girls' getting raped in school bathrooms by cross dressing heterosexual rapist boys and cross dressing gay men being allowed access to young children in the schools when it is whackjob story telling hour.
The only people on this planet that should be pissed about pronouns and gender identification is hermaphrodites. The gay community and gender dysphoric whack-a-doodles have usurped their privilege of self identification andnow many parts of this country look like a bad SouthPark episode.
Yeah "straight cisgendered white men" seem to be the few that DON'T want drama all the time...