'and don't want to be pariahs anymore?'

WTF?

I don't think you can stop being a pariah by deciding you don't want to be a pariah any more.

MORE ABOUT PARIAH What does pariah mean?

A pariah is an outcast or someone who’s despised and avoided.

Pariah is often used to refer to a person who is widely shunned for some offense they have committed. It is often used in the phrase social pariah and in the context of politics.

Example: Although the defendant was found not guilty, he was still treated like a pariah in his hometown, with formerly close friends now refusing to talk to him.