The down votes are because you express the reasonable position that aligns with the ridiculous extremist position that is actually happening. That is often used as a tool that leads to dismissal of an argument by shills in an attempt to divide.

A lot of people here are tired of being dismissed by word games. Don't take it personally.

For what it's worth, I agree with your reasonable assertion and vehemently decry the extremist one. I try to live by two rules. Jesus's admonishment to do unto others as well as Hillel's instruction to temper that with not doing unto others.