You are right. Sometimes it's hard to resist the temptation to say....I told you so. Its Such a childish response. I have to remind myself I too was misled for a long time. I now see and think very differently. But I have had just over a year now to deal with the breaking of my world view and Trust. It's been a very different journey than what I had planned for my life at this point. I now see it more as grieving. Missing the idealized vision I had planned. These 2 years have been a roller coaster. For those getting smacked with reality it's going to be tough for them to accept this.... Cognative dissonance is going to break a few people. I get a lot of strength from my Faith and pray many find their way to God and His love.
You are right. Sometimes it's hard to resist the temptation to say....I told you so. Its Such a childish response. I have to remind myself I too was misled for a long time. I now see and think very differently. But I have had just over a year now to deal with the breaking of my world view and Trust. It's been a very different journey than what I had planned for my life at this point. I now see it more as grieving. Missing the idealized vision I had planned. These 2 years have been a roller coaster. For those getting smacked with reality it's going to be tough for them to accept this.... Cognative dissonance is going to break a few people. I get a lot of strength from my Faith and pray many find their way to God and His love.