Look. Maybe he's gay. So you need to tread carefully on how you handle this situation. Try to come to a place of understanding with him. Maybe he's just being curious, which is not out of the ordinary for 14-year-olds. But if you rain down fire on him and vilify him because of it, you will end up alienating him entirely. He will grow to resent you and you will lose him completely.
American psychology by the 1920s contained a greater capacity for viewing some homosexual experiences as normal than most current historical literature suggests. Developmental psychologists agreed with psychiatrists that adult homosexuality was pathological, but they also agreed that adolescent sexual development included a homosexual phase. Until the late 1960s, developmental texts reassured parents and teachers that homosexual behavior among adolescents was transitory and quite normal.
"From reassurance to irrelevance: adolescent psychology and homosexuality in America," by Spurlock (2002: 38) https://g0ys.org/tremblay112010.htm
IMO, the bible verses against homosexuality are health guidance. God wants all of us to live a happy healthy life. The fact is gay men today have much higher rates of HIV, parasites, and other transmissible disease. Without modern medicine these diseases would be causing massive death. One can be gay and live a healthy life by avoiding certAin sex Acts.
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Look. Maybe he's gay. So you need to tread carefully on how you handle this situation. Try to come to a place of understanding with him. Maybe he's just being curious, which is not out of the ordinary for 14-year-olds. But if you rain down fire on him and vilify him because of it, you will end up alienating him entirely. He will grow to resent you and you will lose him completely.
Exactly.
"From reassurance to irrelevance: adolescent psychology and homosexuality in America," by Spurlock (2002: 38) https://g0ys.org/tremblay112010.htm
IMO, the bible verses against homosexuality are health guidance. God wants all of us to live a happy healthy life. The fact is gay men today have much higher rates of HIV, parasites, and other transmissible disease. Without modern medicine these diseases would be causing massive death. One can be gay and live a healthy life by avoiding certAin sex Acts.
Piggybacking so more frens than just OP will see this...