The issue is that if it’s possibly not any outside influence. It’s possible that he maybe he is just attracted to boys. I wouldn’t ostracize him for it or put him in some “camp” because of it. That’s along the same vein of the “re-education camps” we talk about.
I will tell you one thing for certain. If you try to push YOUR beliefs on your son, it will only serve to push him away from those beliefs. Especially in a tumultuous time in his life. There is nothing that requires him to share your beliefs to the letter. I think you should accept that he will be his own person, just as you are. Force only begets resistance. And if you would turn your son away for who he is, based on your beliefs, then I want no part of those types of beliefs. Supposed to love everyone regardless of what their preferences are, instead of trying to change them to fit who YOU want them to be.
Most likely, he is just a horny/curious teenager. When I was 14 I would screw a cantaloupe if it looked just right.
The issue is that if it’s possibly not any outside influence. It’s possible that he maybe he is just attracted to boys. I wouldn’t ostracize him for it or put him in some “camp” because of it. That’s along the same vein of the “re-education camps” we talk about.
I will tell you one thing for certain. If you try to push YOUR beliefs on your son, it will only serve to push him away from those beliefs. Especially in a tumultuous time in his life. There is nothing that requires him to share your beliefs to the letter. I think you should accept that he will be his own person, just as you are. Force only begets resistance. And if you would turn your son away for who he is, based on your beliefs, then I want no part of those types of beliefs. Supposed to love everyone regardless of what their preferences are, instead of trying to change them to fit who YOU want them to be.
Most likely, he is just a horny/curious teenager. When I was 14 I would screw a cantaloupe if it looked just right.