I'll pray for you but in my opinion---which you did not ask for--- the first few years of a child's life are the most important. only coming The child will either bond with their Mother or they will not bond at all. I have seen many daycare services and not one of them had the time to spend with a baby. They wrap the child in a blanket and put it in a crib only coming by to change the diaper or feed the baby---usually by propping a bottle up on a pillow. The baby needs holding to bond. We have an intire generation that never bonded and they have no compassion for their fellow man. I know you didn't ask me but if you made the decision to have a child, cutting the way you live so you can afford to stay home with them will be the best decision you ever made. Now I will get off my 70 year old soapbox and pray for your family.