Saw this on 4chan -sorry if someone already posted - super relevant for this board
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geez, can't one have a very happy and healthy marriage with kids and just have a frequent urge that is assisted by a video? my wife loves me and having sex with me but she can't jump to everytime I'm worked up. once upon a time i had to remember the hot girl a saw walking around the mall, or watch Gilligan's Island or snag the Frederick's catalog. was all this evil too? without a strong libido we are much less likely to reproduce. there's a reason we're not all priests and nuns
I agree with you to a degree. A big part of this is also learning and exploration. As a Christian, I know the church has done more harm than good in promoting a strong and healthy sex life within a marriage. Couples have to learn and experiment, and there is some big value in essentially having someone “teach” you new things, which porn can do. How else can you learn from watching what others are doing? Go to a live sex show?? Lol
I've come to realize the best sex life in marriage. Sex prowess is irrelevant to 90% of Christian women. Love a woman truly and completely. And that means that she's not your cum rag if she doesn't want to have sex .... try making love ... making love should take about 3 min of penetration. You shouldn't need oral. You shouldn't require anal. Love her. The way you want your daughter loved.
That post nut clarity should dissolve the demons away
Daughters grow up. They become women, and those women have different needs and desires from when they were children. Sure they want love, but they also want passion, they want fun, they want thrill and excitement. 3 min love pumps are not going to cut it long term.
Ha ... when you're young perhaps .... but it's all rather boring after a while, it consumes too much of your time and energy. How many hours have you spent jerking off in your life? Days? Weeks? Literally fruitless. Literally spilling your seed on desolate soil if u even want to call a cum rag that ....it's just meaningless ..... and why that return to innocence is so precious..... it's not a product to be consumed
Self control. Self discipline.
You're such a horny fucker you can't wait? You're so animalistic that you cannot contain yourself? You cannot wait? You cannot have restraint? You just have to HAVE TO cum?
I write this as a divorcee having fallen for the trap.
you seem to be very jaded. what do i need to wait for ? what trap? it's of no harm to my wife. she's well aware and we live a life that involves pure honesty about everything which i believe would cure many if not all of the world's problems
You do not understand the power of the dark side. Some things dig in deep ..... the power exchange and dynamic was unlike anything else. It fueled my decline.
Anything inside of bondage n discipline, domination n submission, sadism n masochism and exhibitionism n voyeurism is from the devil. It's like trying heroin inside of marriage .... it's safe. No it's not. Not at all. I speak from experience not from a place of ignorance
ok, well I'm not watching bestiality or whatever dark stuff you're referring to. and I'd argue that those videos watched by your ex only brought out a darker side of him that existed with or without the porn. perhaps one's his ability to release some of that darker energy on porn might save real people from the hands of their otherwise irresistible desire to perform this for real on victims
you can hate all videod sex if you want, but I think it's short sighted and I think it's only manifesting inside you and creating an unnecessary chip on your shoulder that likely presents a wall making it harder for people to genuinely love you. moreover, now more than ever we all need to take responsibility for our actions and choices. If my wife were all of the sudden to start cheating behind my back or hurt me or the kids badly, I need to take responsibility and recognize that I aligned with this person and no matter how little, my relationship and behavior with her played a role in this. this isn't to take blame away from her. many people have been killed by cars but I recognize there are many factors that go into how so therefore I don't despise cars