I get this post. Have thought and prayed a lot about it. I am expecting many phone calls in coming months because I have never shied away from telling truth for many years and I have prayed for the grace to handle it because " We are not the same " I know we will all meet the mark when the time comes, but it is OK in this community to share our pain and losses and if you have really been telling truth you have them. As Trump has said " I will take these swords and arrows for you " It makes my little stings pale into insignificance.