Expect dysfunction. That doesn't mean to plan for it, just expect it. If they make it out with their sanity, you they will be the exception. I'd suggest getting you kids into church and making sure they are active, Youth Groups, summer camp, Wednesday nights, etc. It needs to be a good, Biblical church otherwise a woke church is going to speed-up their being fully propagandized. You and your spouse have to be in sync on the whole process as well.

Good luck. The odds are not in your favor.