I started out negatively responding to the name Finkelhor. I was certain he was an awful person as quoted, in this context. Reading your larger understanding of a therapist and the context he was speaking in, this is like a welcome slap on my face for pre- judging this human being with an unfortunate last name.
I was abused often by older more powerful people in rapes where it appeared voluntary at the time to myself. He's getting at this personal dilemma and explaining it to clinicians. Please, lets not shoot the messengers.
In being raped, you get aroused unavoidably, this leads to guilt and shame. This is the way it is.
You are correct. A knee-jerk reaction to this story without proper context would not only be misguided, but targeting someone who is a specialist in exactly the sort of work the Q movement is supposed to be championing.
I started out negatively responding to the name Finkelhor. I was certain he was an awful person as quoted, in this context. Reading your larger understanding of a therapist and the context he was speaking in, this is like a welcome slap on my face for pre- judging this human being with an unfortunate last name.
I was abused often by older more powerful people in rapes where it appeared voluntary at the time to myself. He's getting at this personal dilemma and explaining it to clinicians. Please, lets not shoot the messengers.
In being raped, you get aroused unavoidably, this leads to guilt and shame. This is the way it is.
I am so sorry to hear that you went through that.
You are correct. A knee-jerk reaction to this story without proper context would not only be misguided, but targeting someone who is a specialist in exactly the sort of work the Q movement is supposed to be championing.
what else can I say,.......Jesus Saves!!!!!!!!!!
Username checks out. :)
The MK part is a whole other story. :)