Exactly, they want to revel in hedonism and not take care of themselves, refuse to be responsible for themselves, and expect others to coddle them when they suffer the consequences of their terrible choices.

I indulge, but I don't overdo it. I don't drink to the point of sickness or blackout. I smoke cigarettes but can make a pack last me a week. I take vitamins and ride bike daily. I try to eat healthy but like a greasy burger a few times a month. In spite of everything, my family is rather long-lived on both sides.