I live my mom and don’t want her to die alone especially in that mess but I am feeling more incluned to leave her in nursing care where the right people can care for her. I just had a spinal fusion in March (3rd back surgery) another back injury amd I’m permanently wheelchair bound and my husbamd has had an aortic dissection in 2018 and surgery a tear later but still has a few Un repaired parts and if he has another dissection, he’s just dead, no time to get to hospital. I already told her I can’t move her until I get a caregiver who can come help out.