I think it is time for good men to put their goodness to work, we all have an ideal that was set forth in the Bible that men are to protect and be strong for their families and their wives, sisters, daughters, etc. Many other cultures still hold strong to this. I don't know too many american women who know of cases when the men in the family came to aid of a woman relative who needs to get out of a bad situation. This idea of minding ones own business in cases like this can leave a woman with kids feeling completely abandoned. Men, step up, please! In many what we call "latin" families, no one would hurt a woman, knowing that if she had brothers they would come and defend their sister. The Bible states clearly that women are to be respected and protected. I blame many things, but there is clear evidence that pornography has destroyed mens minds and attitude. There is no such thing as a woman choosing to partake in pornography as "her choice". All women who do such things are trafficked, are victims of child abuse, forced into addiction, etc. The rate of abuse has gone up along with the availability and tolerance of pornography. Calling on all men of a true heart who are committed to the Lord to come forward and to step up. It is a terrible feeling when there is nowhere to turn to. Supporting victims of abuse is not just a "womans" issue. We need heroes for this cause and it should be coming from our brothers and our fathers.