Men are abused as well. My dad did. He tried to keep the family together but he should have cut his losses and left years before he did.I encouraged him to go and that we would go with him(which was unheard of at the time), he threatened my mom he would take her to court for us. She didn’t believe him. He was the victor, but not before the court put us kids through hell. I was the oldest and strongest and we won.My mom never forgave me for that. People have no idea what they put their kids through.