If they start off talking about vaccinations ... dead giveaway. If they seem to dance around the words "mother" and "father" ... dead giveaway. Ask questions about everything they do with medications and IV fluids. Listen. Be obvious. Make trigger comments and note facial expressions.
PAY ATTENTION.
Let them know, from the beginning, that YOU are in charge and YOU will make ALL decisions regarding the health and well being of your child. Not them. Let them know up front "with that's going on with the healthcare system these days, they will absolutely need to earn your trust."
If they start off talking about vaccinations ... dead giveaway. If they seem to dance around the words "mother" and "father" ... dead giveaway. Ask questions about everything they do with medications and IV fluids. Listen. Be obvious. Make trigger comments and note facial expressions.
PAY ATTENTION.
Let them know, from the beginning, that YOU are in charge and YOU will make ALL decisions regarding the health and well being of your child. Not them. Let them know up front "with that's going on with the healthcare system these days, they will absolutely need to earn your trust."