Never mind what it does to the wife. After so many years of getting off to the visuals and the use of the hand it’s pretty close to impossible to finish off the way intended, in the wife. The male member becomes accustomed to only “working properly” with hand motion only. Natural intercourse doesn’t do anything for him anymore. And eventually the husband becomes so selfish that he realizes he can pleasure himself in a few minutes by himself and doesn’t have to put in the energy of pleasing his partner, that the wife becomes completely ignored. And the rare times he does decide to be intimate with the wife, because the wife cries and pleads for intimacy, it’s nothing at all like making love. It’s the husband trying to recreate with his wife whatever sordid scene he’s been watching recently. I love him and spent years trying to convince him to stop but I’ve given up now. And you can’t say oh the wife must not try to keep him interested. I’m the same weight from the day I married him and I’ve wanted intimacy a couple times a week since day one. But I never knew about his porn addiction for years and always cried myself to sleep over why isn’t my husband interested in me? I didn’t know I was competing with all the women on the internet for his attention. So yeah. Porn addiction affects the wife very much.