Could have gone either way at about 12 years old. Confused mess because of things enacted on me. It was a guy who illustrated to me that I was not actually lesbian material in spite of my influences. I see how it happens, I would say that if I had been actively, persistently groomed by lesbians at age 12, I would THINK I was one but really my own hetero-ness would have won out given the opportunity, even so. I am so, so straight.