When our daughter, M., was drying off her 5 yo daughter, G., on Tuesday night, she noticed what looked like brush burns on G's shoulder blades. Both G and her brother R, said that daughter's ex, T's fiancee , A., had pushed G against a motel wall this past weekend where they attended a rodeo with their dad,T. and his fiancee, A. . Daughter called police and filed a report in the town in which she lives. Yesterday, she went to file for a protective order. The judge denied it because there is a custody agreement in place. Our daughter was not asking for the order to be vacated, she's trying to protect G. This morning, my husband brought G to her pediatrician to have this on file. M had called the pediatrician to ask what she can do and this is what he suggested.
Today, M is going to the town where the incident occurred to try to file charges there. M texted me a few minutes ago asking that I ask everyone for prayers. I am so disgusted by the judge. T's dad is a bigwig at the local college. He has consistently gotten T off the hook from DUIs, leaving the scene of an accident, almost beating a guy to death. HATE who you know and who you blow justice system that refuses to protect a child.
Please send up prayers for our granddaughter G, her mom, M. and our family. Pray that justice is done to protect our darling little G.
UPDATE: The police detective she met with today took the abuse seriously. He will investigate! Thanks a million for your prayers!!!
UPDATE 2: Judge today refused an emergency custody order. She happens to be a neighbor of the ex.
Question, who did she ask for the order against? Her ex or the girlfriend?
If I were her I'd only place it against the girlfriend. Yhen the custody order doesn't matter or get affected. The ex won't legally be able to bring the girlfriend around while he has the kids.
Yeah, I think she overreached because she also named T's father because she knows that no matter if there is a protective order issued, the T's dad will do whatever T wants. The court doesn't look at it that way though. I think she should have just asked for it to be against the fiancee.