For what’s is worth and this opinion will likely not be popular. We only have a small minute life to live and only a fraction of it is among family and friends. I would not at all subject myself to the shot no matter any circumstance I can think of, not even this one. But the olive branch is the mask. You can always voice your opinion of your disapproval of its function and how nothing will ever be normal again until we move past them, but as olive branch you could wear it this one time, to meet someone I imagine you will treasure for years to come. It’ll be a sacrifice, it’ll be submitting to their control, it’ll likely go against everything you believe in but it just might be an observable moment where you chose to put politics aside for family. Maybe they will learn something from it. Maybe it will move something within them, Maybe nothing will change at all. But I think you could hold your head up high while you hold her. Who knows we could all be nuked tomorrow.