"Thinking on this, and how many people with spectrum disorders fall into this, #1 why are there so many people who are "on the spectrum "? Vaccines, toxic food,additives, treatments, etc. Now, a lot of people on the spectrum tend to be more asexual, if they were not pushed to sexualize themselves at a young age in this sick society, they may be the kind of person who never marries, never dates, and is okay with that.
I think there is a natural order to things that makes a certain percentage of us not wanting to procreate, period. If you have ever raised animals, you will find that there are some that do not want to breed, and some that do, so in a world that did not sell and push sex down our throats, those that were just fine were condemned by society, made fun of, etc. Some folks just naturally have a low libido, or none at all. There is no reason for it,is it God's way to wean out things in the gene pool? I think so.
So you get these kids who may be on the spectrum, they do not have any spiritual teaching in their lives, they have a problem relating to much of what is around them, maybe they are lonely and live in a fantasy world. they are developmentally delayed on some level, and stuck in that, but, they know when they reach puberty their body starts to change.For some people with autism, this is a disturbing thing to go through, and typically, a very hard time begins in the family.
A person with autism does not understand the social rules, they can mimic, they can learn routine by doing it, but they do look for social cues. What if you thought your future expected you to fall in love, make babies, and start a family? What if, suddenly, you see in society a way out of that, by changing something on the outside, your appearance, your name, etc, because you do not fit into the biological norm?
Now suddenly, is your out, you can change and all those pressures to fit into a norm that your mind simply cannot do is available to you. So, you become a furry, a transgender person, etc? Maybe if society did not push sex on people from the time of puberty and the rest of their lives, they would not feel like they had to make this drastic transition.
Maybe we can lay off of our kids and just let them follow there natural path, which may be asexual, maybe some people are not born to breed, and we should all be okay with that, instead of labelling them as binary or gender fluid, etc. A boy or a girl should not be pushed to mature until they are ready, in that department, and for a person with autism, it may never happen.
So, in a humble and modest home, that person's passion may be tinkering, or music, or art, or collecting things, and they can contribute to society, but the pressure to be a sexual being is just too confusing for them, so let him grow up to be a bachelor who can design buildings, or an "old maid" who writes poetry and makes gorgeous tapestries.
Maybe the pressure to be sexual has them running into the opposite of what they are to avoid something (sex) that is just too weird for them. I dunno, its just something I have been thinking about."
Thank you for doing this, it was an excellent comment.
And this is coming from someone who usually scrolls past WOT, even if it's something I'm interested in. Oddly enough though, I went and read the original comment all before I even saw your post.
Definitely worth reading! Thank you again for the 'easy on the eyes' version.
Not pushing someone into social norm is a great way. I prefer that. People should have choices to choose whether he/she wants to procreate, marry, single or have family.
We do need to lay off trying to fit people into boxes.
How about some paragraph breaks in this wall of text?
I'll do the honor:
"Thinking on this, and how many people with spectrum disorders fall into this, #1 why are there so many people who are "on the spectrum "? Vaccines, toxic food,additives, treatments, etc. Now, a lot of people on the spectrum tend to be more asexual, if they were not pushed to sexualize themselves at a young age in this sick society, they may be the kind of person who never marries, never dates, and is okay with that.
I think there is a natural order to things that makes a certain percentage of us not wanting to procreate, period. If you have ever raised animals, you will find that there are some that do not want to breed, and some that do, so in a world that did not sell and push sex down our throats, those that were just fine were condemned by society, made fun of, etc. Some folks just naturally have a low libido, or none at all. There is no reason for it,is it God's way to wean out things in the gene pool? I think so.
So you get these kids who may be on the spectrum, they do not have any spiritual teaching in their lives, they have a problem relating to much of what is around them, maybe they are lonely and live in a fantasy world. they are developmentally delayed on some level, and stuck in that, but, they know when they reach puberty their body starts to change.For some people with autism, this is a disturbing thing to go through, and typically, a very hard time begins in the family.
A person with autism does not understand the social rules, they can mimic, they can learn routine by doing it, but they do look for social cues. What if you thought your future expected you to fall in love, make babies, and start a family? What if, suddenly, you see in society a way out of that, by changing something on the outside, your appearance, your name, etc, because you do not fit into the biological norm?
Now suddenly, is your out, you can change and all those pressures to fit into a norm that your mind simply cannot do is available to you. So, you become a furry, a transgender person, etc? Maybe if society did not push sex on people from the time of puberty and the rest of their lives, they would not feel like they had to make this drastic transition.
Maybe we can lay off of our kids and just let them follow there natural path, which may be asexual, maybe some people are not born to breed, and we should all be okay with that, instead of labelling them as binary or gender fluid, etc. A boy or a girl should not be pushed to mature until they are ready, in that department, and for a person with autism, it may never happen.
So, in a humble and modest home, that person's passion may be tinkering, or music, or art, or collecting things, and they can contribute to society, but the pressure to be a sexual being is just too confusing for them, so let him grow up to be a bachelor who can design buildings, or an "old maid" who writes poetry and makes gorgeous tapestries.
Maybe the pressure to be sexual has them running into the opposite of what they are to avoid something (sex) that is just too weird for them. I dunno, its just something I have been thinking about."
Thank you for doing this, it was an excellent comment.
And this is coming from someone who usually scrolls past WOT, even if it's something I'm interested in. Oddly enough though, I went and read the original comment all before I even saw your post.
Definitely worth reading! Thank you again for the 'easy on the eyes' version.
Why thank you, kind sir!
Not pushing someone into social norm is a great way. I prefer that. People should have choices to choose whether he/she wants to procreate, marry, single or have family.
We do need to lay off trying to fit people into boxes.
Thanks for breaking that into paragraph.