I lost my first child to miscarriage, I was at the 12 week mark, this was traumatic and I carry it with me because she was beautiful. I have no sympathy for any woman who chooses to purposely end a babies life because she thinks that her pregnancy is just a clump of cells. I had a friend that felt that way and she used abortion as birth control. We argued on that and we fell away as friends. I ran into her a few years back and felt no sympathy for her as she explained how much she wanted children now but was unable to have any because of all the scar tissue. Sometimes I guess God makes sure some pay the ultimate price for their decision in that way.