Technically both sides are potentially guilty of grooming by sexualization of minors. I saw my first vagina under the supervision of heterosexuals in a bar when I was a child. Can't imagine it was planned, maybe I was supposed to be interested in the video games at the bar. But I seen't it and pardon the vulgarity, it was well worn. Not really something you look forward to later in life. Like a McDonald's Big Mac commercial vs a McDonald's Big Mac, no shade. Children are going to be pressured by their family and peers enough, I do not know that it is within the best interest to promote any.