One part of me feel compassion , the other part feels nothing… I was told I should be raped and beheaded in front of my husband… I know I should be better than that… but I just can’t… hate begets a fuck you, you fucking fuck… I want to be bigger and better,,, but I can’t right now… I know it is wrong,,, I need to find right.. I can’t forgive or forgive what they did and said…
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Forgiveness takes time. Maybe years or decades. You don’t have to be there yet. Ultimately the reason you forgive them will be, of course, ‘for they know not what they do’.
It’s a choice. It’s a choice you can delay or you can make right now.
You choose when you will stop holding onto anger.
Ideally, yes. But we’re dealing with aberrated people who prove every day that they cannot instantly transition to higher conscious. Even highly conscious people can sometimes take hours or days to let go of anger.