One part of me feel compassion , the other part feels nothing… I was told I should be raped and beheaded in front of my husband… I know I should be better than that… but I just can’t… hate begets a fuck you, you fucking fuck… I want to be bigger and better,,, but I can’t right now… I know it is wrong,,, I need to find right.. I can’t forgive or forgive what they did and said…
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Forgiveness is not a gift for them; it’s a gift for you.
Being angry takes energy away from you. It is not a pleasant feeling and does not contribute positively to your life. By forgiving them, you release the negative energy and free yourself from the negativity.
You got through the experience. You are a pure blood.
They are going to die. They get to look on in horror as people drop dead of blood clots and heart attacks. They get to live in fear of a rapid onset cancer.
You can still plan for the future.
Forgive them and move on to do more productive things with your time and energy