Hi all,
I know a lot of you are very smart so I wanted to seek your advice. Currently, I'm in my late thirties and come from a good family background. However, I don't have any long-lasting friends and my love life is non-existent. However, I do try to meet people and get along with them, but in the end it never works out.
I've never had a real girlfriend before, although I've tried dating and never got too far. After trying so many times and failing, it's starting to feel like it's not meant to be. I also feel like I don't relate to the general populace. Most are unawake to the realities of the world and are brainwashed by media and popular opinion. I tend to go against the grain and because of that, it's hard for others to relate to me.
I also I have aspirations to do something amazing and believe I have the potential to do that, but I am unsure how to go about that. I don't have anyone to guide me so everything comes from the top of my dome. I'm happy to be alive, but I have a strong desire to do something notable and great. But I'm afraid that desire might not be enough.
What do you suggest I do to live a better life?
Learn to be a chocolate chef as a hobby. Take a few classes, learn the art of making chocolate candies, treats and desserts.
Once you get fairly good, and have given gifts of chocolates to a few others around you... you will NEVER have a problem with meeting women ever again. Women will meet YOU. They also won't worry so much about looks, income or personal quirks. You make chocolates... so that automatically checks all the boxes on their wish list.
Also, women will argue with almost any man, but no woman will yell at or run off and leave a chocolate chef. It goes against their nature.
Do that, and have a happy life.
As someone who IS a chocolatier (when I feel like it, I do individual orders and specialty sales, plus holiday time sales), this is a really good idea. Getting really good at making chocolates, with pure chocolate, not compound or confectionary chocolate develops attention to detail, PATIENCE and perseverance, and the understanding that you WILL make mistakes sometimes, but can move on from them. Attributes/skills that are always useful, in many aspects of life. Besides which, pure chocolate (containing cocoa mass and cocoa liquor) is incredibly good for you!
On a side note. I didn’t meet my husband/life partner/best friend until my mid forties, and rarely dated before that. I find that knowing what you don’t want is just as important as knowing what you do. I also agree with CommiesGetTheRope in not settling. As stated, your match exists.
You will find your match. Take chances, and look for the opportunities. Blessings.
...I was going to suggest putting a banana in his pants but your idea refines this concept.....