My wife and I found out that her pregnancy isnāt viable and she has miscarried. Weāve wanted another child for so long and finally thought we caught a breakā¦weāre both devastated. Honestly trying (not very successfully) to not be bitter and angry as hell right now- canāt understand how two people tryig their damnedest to raise a family the right way keep getting screwed while plenty of others who donāt even want children seem to be popping them out. Iām sorry, I know thatās inappropriate, mean, petty and not productive etc but I canāt help but feel that way today. Just needed to vent. Thank you to all those who have wished us well, unfortunately, just wasnāt in the cards for us this time. Weāll just pick up the pieces and try again I guessā¦
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My heart hurts for you both. We went through many rounds of IVF with nothing to show for it. I experienced the exact same emotions you are feeling right now, and you are not mean, petty, or inappropriate. You are hurting. Be kind to yourself. ((Hugs)) to you both.
Thank you, I so much appreciate the honesty here! Weāre tired of almost being told to brush it off by ppl around us and here itās so refreshing to see that we are ALLOWED to be angry. Doesnāt mean we wonāt pick ourselves up, dust off, and carry on. Weāre just feeling raw, irritated and tired and itās nice to know thatās valid too. My heart goes out to you as well fren. Thank you for your kindness and love. Love and happiness to you and yours.
Thank you š. Our story has a happy ending. Going through the medical stuff was part of the plan, because it created the timing to find our two kiddos through adoption. That said, your path is yours and yours alone to walk. Once you have given yourself time to grieve, research the great advice the anons here have given, and you will find the answers you need. Much love you and yours.