I’m gonna have to side with wtf. Not all are racists. But we DO stereotype. As someone who waited tables for 18 years, you pick up on traits. Like Black people and Asians don’t tip. Europeans don’t like ice in their drinks. Black people also like straws in their water glasses. There’s always exceptions to the rule. That’s why I always tried to give good service with a smile to black people even though I knew the odds of them stiffing me would be slim to none. Took every ounce of my being not just ignore their refills knowing it wasn’t worth the hustle. That’s not racism though. That’s recognizing a pattern of behavior in a group of people. I didn’t dislike them just wish they learned to tip. I always wondered if it’s because I was white, if they stiffed blacks too. Then I saw a Louis CK episode where a black cocktail server bitched about black people not tipping and I realized it was just what they do!