I'm one of the sad bastards for whom it's most likely too late. I'm 40 now and spent my 20s and 30s basically brainwashed that it wasn't good to have kids, or I wasn't worthy, or I didn't want them, wouldn't be a good father, there are no good women anymore, blah blah blah, now in these last few years coming to my senses, it hurts to realize I let the prime years slip away.
40 is too old for a woman to have kids, or at least it starts to become high risk for down syndrome and birth defects, which means I would need to find a younger woman, which is a) unlikely to happen in terms of me finding one who would have me and b) likely that we would have very little in common if I did.
I'm one of the sad bastards for whom it's most likely too late. I'm 40 now and spent my 20s and 30s basically brainwashed that it wasn't good to have kids, or I wasn't worthy, or I didn't want them, wouldn't be a good father, there are no good women anymore, blah blah blah, now in these last few years coming to my senses, it hurts to realize I let the prime years slip away.
40 isn’t too old at all.
40 is too old for a woman to have kids, or at least it starts to become high risk for down syndrome and birth defects, which means I would need to find a younger woman, which is a) unlikely to happen in terms of me finding one who would have me and b) likely that we would have very little in common if I did.