I am like you (42, unmarried). I have been very careful selecting a wife. As the saying goes: "Find a woman you can't live without, not the one you can live with."
My older brother got burned when he married at 24. He met his wife (27). She had a child from a previous relationship. Very soon, my brother became a total cuck. The wife gave birth to 5 children. Now she is totally lazy: constantly on social media, shopping and traveling with friends. I suspect that she is also cheating on him with their piano teacher.
Meanwhile, my brother is working full-time (solid income), cooking meals, raising kids and maintaining the house. He privately told me: "I have sacrificed my life for the kids. I will raise them until the youngest one is 18 and off to college. My dream is to divorce the wife."
I am like you (42, unmarried). I have been very careful selecting a wife. As the saying goes: "Find a woman you can't live without, not the one you can live with."
My older brother got burned when he married at 24. He met his wife (27). She had a child from a previous relationship. Very soon, my brother became a total cuck. The wife gave birth to 5 children. Now she is totally lazy: constantly on social media, shopping and traveling with friends. I suspect that she is also cheating on him with their piano teacher.
Meanwhile, my brother is working full-time (solid income), cooking meals, raising kids and maintaining the house. He privately told me: "I have sacrificed my life for the kids. I will raise them until the youngest one is 18 and off to college. My dream is to divorce the wife."
I have the feeling at most women now would be this way.