I'm not touching anything in your post other than the fact that she's a staunch Catholic. I'm married to a tradcon old school Latin Rite Catholic. Glowies, I'm already on all of your lists so calm down. I understand how difficult it must have been for her if she is a true Catholic and not one of these new types. The kid is already messed up. Water under the bridge at this point. I wish them all to seek God in Their future.