My feelings are the result of all of this affecting me, my family, my neighborhood. People lost their livelihoods. People lost loved relatives. Their feelings matter when they are just and concerning actual wrongdoings. The reason the 'other' peoples feelings dont matter is because they were inventing problems to be upset at. They were either lying about being upset or they were so unhinged they would be upset about anything they perceived as a slight against anyone they could use to further their narrative. Those feelings dont matter.