I guess I can't relate to that. I had three babies by c-sect. I nursed those children for a year each while working full time in tech at a fortune 100 auto industry job. I also used cotton diapers rather than pampers.

I don't think any of that made me a better mom. Like babies, moms come in all different types. I believe a great deal of women would do anything for their children. Usually if they are men hopping its because of an involvement in drugs or alcohol.

I don't believe how you had your child, natural or c-sect, or whether you nurse or use formula, even your choice of diapers make you a better or worse parent. What makes the difference is your maturity when you have babies. You can't raise good kids if you yourself arent coming from a good place with good mentors.

You must live in the city where everyone is an animal. Culture is everything when raising a child.