I think going to someone because they want to be with family is reasonable. But as a woman… Be sure to vet her friends for not being toxic before getting married, I’ve heard of stories of jealous woke “friends” working hard to gaslight their friend into ruining relationships.
Besides all the personal stuff. CA is extremely valuable farm land, has good weather, and a beautiful coast. It really is pretty poor strategy for us to always tell people to run and let bad actors have it all. If you have the means to live there at a good quality of life, with family who lives you. That’s good stuff.
I think going to someone because they want to be with family is reasonable. But as a woman… Be sure to vet her friends for not being toxic before getting married, I’ve heard of stories of jealous woke “friends” working hard to gaslight their friend into ruining relationships.
Besides all the personal stuff. CA is extremely valuable farm land, has good weather, and a beautiful coast. It really is pretty poor strategy for us to always tell people to run and let bad actors have it all. If you have the means to live there at a good quality of life, with family who lives you. That’s good stuff.