I think what CONSENTING adults choose to do behind closed doors is their business. Who are you or I to judge? I know plenty of adults in the kink/swinging community who are very average and normal people, but they also get off on pain and domination IN THE BEDROOM. To just assume someone is an all out monster because of what they consent to do in their private time is wild. If he is in fact doing this to people who do not consent to it, of course that is terrible. We do not disagree on that. But neither you or I have any kind of proof that he is.

You are literally operating on your own assumption and creating a strawman to hate. If you are doing this to him, what makes me or anyone else think that you aren't doing that same thing to other aspects of your life and the people in it. See how that sounds when your own logic is used against you? Honestly man, go outside and touch some grass. I promise you, no one on the internet or the "top g" cares about how much respect you have for him. Having that kind of anger over someone you never met just isn't healthy.