From the way they bleat about it I think they secretly want to believe people are obsessed with them. Many of them could not stop gushing about She-Hulk because they thought that would "piss off straight white men".

A couple years back I had one guy who announced to a group of us waiting at a bus stop, "After months of agonizing about it, I want to be honest about who I really am. I will no longer hide in the closet. I will no longer hide who I really am. I am... small pause non-binary pansexual who identifies as they/ her."

All of us: ...

Finally a nervous, "Good... for you?" Someone else said "As long as your happy."

When he didn't get the reaction he had obviously scripted in his head (probably with a slow clap and H-wood-style applause) he repeated, "I don't think you heard me. I said I'm a small pause with deep breathe non-binary pansexual who identifies as they/ her."

But what really devastated him was when someone asked, "What's a pansexual?"