Years ago I worked with a known gay guy who later joined the police force (after I quit working there). Supposedly had met Elton John a lot, and was relatively wealthy and in his private life apparently super gay.

He eventually married another guy on the force who would let him put him in the gimp suit and tied up, ball and gag him and was using chloroform to sedate him - and would leave him locked up like that for all day while he worked or did whatever. He did this plenty of times until one day his husband died.

The police of course opened an investigation and he was in the news saying the police force only targeted him and his relationship because he was gay and if he was hetero he wouldn't be in trouble. He took his life a few weeks later before he could be charged.