Because in order for someone to win...
There must be loss. That's how it works.
Don't celebrate the loss; bad karma/juju for that kind of thing is long documented, that's reasonable.
But the question posited first is a tad naive, no offense.
You asked an open ended question, that actually has a direct answer (rare these days). Might I suggest making sure those you are using your energy on, walk away asking more of themselves, than feeling superior after such a query?
Perhaps this might have a better format maybe?
Even if the other side loses, what has really been won? Innocents still died, you still choose a side, and is anyone any the better for it? (The "you" in this is just a placeholder, not directed at you fren)
An inflated ego is harder to breach from hence forth on, after all. Anyone who can give that answer might also just brush you off, which is fine as we aren't the arbiters of fate, but I digress.
I get where you were headed with it, and do concur.
Just suggestions from a very quiet observer in this whole ordeal.
You are right. Still mastering the art of harmonizing … sometimes I sound too blunt because that is my nature. Bluntness and honesty are one and the same. But I perfectly understand that the message needs works, because no one likes to think of themselves as negative or having negative thoughts or character. In order to self examine we must examine ourselves from the outside. What do our relationships in every day life look like? What we put out, life reflects back at us.
Because in order for someone to win... There must be loss. That's how it works.
Don't celebrate the loss; bad karma/juju for that kind of thing is long documented, that's reasonable. But the question posited first is a tad naive, no offense.
The point of the question is for someone to notice… notice, but don’t be attached. Attachment only makes things blurry
You asked an open ended question, that actually has a direct answer (rare these days). Might I suggest making sure those you are using your energy on, walk away asking more of themselves, than feeling superior after such a query?
Perhaps this might have a better format maybe?
Even if the other side loses, what has really been won? Innocents still died, you still choose a side, and is anyone any the better for it? (The "you" in this is just a placeholder, not directed at you fren)
An inflated ego is harder to breach from hence forth on, after all. Anyone who can give that answer might also just brush you off, which is fine as we aren't the arbiters of fate, but I digress.
I get where you were headed with it, and do concur. Just suggestions from a very quiet observer in this whole ordeal.
You are right. Still mastering the art of harmonizing … sometimes I sound too blunt because that is my nature. Bluntness and honesty are one and the same. But I perfectly understand that the message needs works, because no one likes to think of themselves as negative or having negative thoughts or character. In order to self examine we must examine ourselves from the outside. What do our relationships in every day life look like? What we put out, life reflects back at us.
Thank you for your wisdom.
I'll be honest, I wish I was wise.
You made me stop and think. I need to do it more often here. Thank you! Be well fren!