It sounds like your daughter had a mini breakdown. Your son is doing some soul-searching. Bless you for your heart and the service you are giving to them right now. All is well. They will both be fine and find their way. Sometimes it takes longer than we think it should. Be patient and understand that there is a reason for everything. You don't really know if this is good or bad. In the end, like many of the moments and situations I have lived through I end up seeing God's hand in it all. Blessings and love to you and your family.