OP, some tough love advice - our daughter and her wife moved on when their landlord decided to sell the house they were renting. They had worked steadily. We offered to let them move into house until another rental/sale became available. MISTAKE - all of a sudden, their work ethic was nowhere to be found. My husband and I put up with it for several months and we finally said, "We love y'all but we're hurting you by allowing you to live this way." They moved out. Miracle (sarcasm) w/in a week they both scored great jobs at a casino. If we had not put our feet down, they'd still be here allowing us to cook and clean for them.
OP, some tough love advice - our daughter and her wife moved on when their landlord decided to sell the house they were renting. They had worked steadily. We offered to let them move into house until another rental/sale became available. MISTAKE - all of a sudden, their work ethic was nowhere to be found. My husband and I put up with it for several months and we finally said, "We love y'all but we're hurting you by allowing you to live this way." They moved out. Miracle (sarcasm) w/in a week they both scored great jobs at a casino. If we had not put our feet down, they'd still be here allowing us to cook and clean for them.