We have court this week. Our grandchildren's step mother, who they call Mom, has been given orders for a move to South Korea. My husband and I will have to say that we think it's best for them to move there with Dad and Mom. Our daughter, M., while she loves her children, is just not fit. It kills me to say this and my heart is being smashed. Last year, Dad was given custody with M having supervised visitation. She only saw them twice in about 9 months until she found out about the move to S. Korea. My husband and I had to take out a restraining order against M last year because she called the police and told them that I was a danger to myself. Imagine my shock when the police came and had to bring me to the ER so a doc could check me out. He said I was fine but that it sounded like my daughter was not. The next day, the police were back. M called and reported my husband, her father, for animal abuse. Now you all don't know him but my husband is, if not the kindest, then one of the top 10 kindest men in the whole world. She violated the order the other night when she called me in the middle of the night. In the past, she tried to strangle me and she swung a cast iron bed rail at her dad. I wish I could make you all understand how painful this court appearance will be for my husband and for me. We love our daughter. We have to put our grandchildren first though. All they've known since they were born is chaos. They need to be on the other side of the world so that they can get some stability in their lives. Anyway, sorry for the novel. We need strength and courage. Please pray for us. Thank you