It was one year ago today that I came before you asking for prayers for my daughter, Christina, who had been involved in a head-on collision with another car. My daughter was a social worker for hospice for 10 years and was using alcohol to deal with her anxiety and inner struggles and on this day she was drinking coming home from a hospice visit and caused the wreck that injured an elderly couple. You rose to the occasion and today marks her one year "Happy Birthday" anniversary celebration of sobriety.
My family is grateful for all the prayers that have been given up on our behalf. I am grateful for the advice of friends that helped determine the necessary course of action and for those that continually remember our family in prayer as things have evolved over the past year and will shortly come to a final conclusion...from a legal standpoint anyway.
Christina was charged with 4 felony counts (injury/DUI). The couple has recovered and they won a multi-million dollar civil lawsuit against her former employer. They told Christina through their civil lawyer that they forgive Christina and are praying for her, which meant a lot and has helped her to forgive herself for being responsible for their injuries.
Christina has 2 children aged 4 and 7 who she left to do rehab in March of last year for one month. She has faithfully attended Alcoholics Anonymous and is learning how to live life sober. She says the most important thing she has learned is to live in the moment, which opens up a whole new way to live life...much different than how she was living. She is in counseling and after 10 months went to a chiropractor and discovered she had chipped her tailbone in the accident. This has been a very LONG year for my family but God has been faithful and healed so much that was broken.
Her husband has also attended Al-Anon and he is learning valuable insights into how to live with someone that has abused alcohol. He also accepted the Lord as his Savior this year which is such a blessing. There is much healing and growth.
Her case is scheduled to come before a judge in March. We are praying that God will be merciful and that she will not go to prison. There is certainly earthly justice but we are praying for God's heavenly mercy that will allow her to remain with her family. She has beome stronger over the past year and is prepared to accept whatever the future holds but we know our God is able to do exceedingly more than we can ever imagine.
I ask for your continued prayers as March approaches and I thank you all for your prayers and lovingkindness toward me and my family. God never promises a life without struggle...but He assures us that He is carrying us through to the end and He is the healer of broken hearts and dreams. It is so wonderful to bask in the everlasting love of our Abba...His faithfulness cannot be measured. Thank you all for being there...prayers have been answered.
Happy Birthday Christina...one year sober with many more to come!
Happy Birthday, Christina!! Huge accomplishment & I'm so proud of you. I have 2 children that are recovering addicts, my son remains locked in the lifestyle trying to stay clean but afraid to fully leave the life & deal with his real issues. The other is my daughter, Becky, who has had cancer twice in 11 years, has 2 children that we took in while she finally went to a 15 month long treatment program & has now been clean for nearly 6 years. She graduated in May with her LADC & is working with ex-cons, helping them to learn to live a clean & sober life. God has been so good to her & it’s been the greatest testimony just to watch her living her life.
There’s so much more to her story but this post is about Christina. May God hold her in His hand as she walks forward. Shes doing the hard work just by staying sober during this hard time. God will continue to give her strength, all He asks is that she reach out for His hand. Gods blessings!!
Thank you so much for sharing a mother's heart...the pain AND the joy...I understand your life completely and I am so happy to know of your daughter's success. There is always hope...I have other children that abuse alcohol so I am always in prayer for them. This is very hard work and I am so blessed to see my daughter's choice to live life to the fullest...God is SO good...I pray that your son will be successful as he tries to maintain a clean lifestyle...and for your family...the ups and downs...but always in God's hands and according to his perfect timing. God bless you and yours...
Thank you for sharing Christina’s story. While it’s difficult for a mother to write it down, we never know whose life we are touching once it’s told. My Becky got cancer the 2nd time after she was clean for 3 years. She was engaged to a wonderful man, also a recovering alcoholic (5 yrs) who is very active in AA. They got married after her bilateral mastectomy & chemo/radiation treatment & have been reaching for the stars since then. I’m not saying it’s all been easy. They both leaned heavily on God & she’s cancer free now for 2 years. If you asked them they would both tell you that God & family support is what has brought them through their recovery. God is so good to His people. He loves each & every one of us beyond our imagination. I cannot even fathom a Father that loves my children more than I do! But I know it’s true.
You are so correct that God loves us all even more abundantly and perfectly than our own human emotions are capable of. I am so proud of your daughter and I know there is total healing for your son. And I do know it is never easy...you are good to be so loving and supportive...it takes a toll...I certainly understand.
My husband was diagnosed with prostate cancer in March of last year so that was an added stress but as much as I hate the fire of refinement that God allows...it really does make us stronger and more dependent on his love, grace, mercy, forgiveness and healing. God is just so good...He is everything we could possibly ever need...or want...just to bathe in His lovingkindness and mercy...what a tender touch of the Master's hand can do...that is the love of God...my prayers for your family Jewel...you are so loved...
This conversation has been such a blessing to me. Thank you for your openness & honesty. It’s really difficult to find people who are willing to be honest about the people they love, yet be honest about the hurt they’ve cost others. God doesn’t expect us to be perfect, just to be in His light & ask for guidance. I see that in your posts. Thank you for your live for Christina & the kindness you’ve shown me & my beautiful daughter, Becky! God bless, Julie