1: work out and become high value if you aren’t and focus on you until the right one comes along. It will happen and it will take time but if you know exactly what you want they are out there.
2: I do think the biggest problem is the marriage issue. Unfortunately modern marriage by the state is basically a document saying I give away half of what I own even if she sleeps with 50 other guys. Also damn near guaranteed she gets at least 50/50 custody regardless of circumstances. Women also struggle finding their place as much or more than men. They are told they need jobs, etc. not realizing raising a child is the job they were literally built for. So now you have women who are only one foot in the door everywhere because the other foot is worried about careers, etc.
1: work out and become high value if you aren’t and focus on you until the right one comes along. It will happen and it will take time but if you know exactly what you want they are out there.
2: I do think the biggest problem is the marriage issue. Unfortunately modern marriage by the state is basically a document saying I give away half of what I own even if she sleeps with 50 other guys. Also damn near guaranteed she gets at least 50/50 custody regardless of circumstances. Women also struggle finding their place as much or more than men. They are told they need jobs, etc. not realizing raising a child is the job they were literally built for. So now you have women who are only one foot in the door everywhere because the other foot is worried about careers, etc.