Question for the Women Here
🗣️ DISCUSSION 💬
My neighbor's house burned down last night and she lost literally everything. I don't know her too well but she used to have a Trump flag up and posted Q stuff on our nextdoor app. She always seemed like a nice person. We briefly talked about politics a few times since she always jogged at the same time every morning.
I want to check in with her and maybe bring some small gifts to help her feel normal again. What could I gift a woman in her 50s with nothing left but the nightgown she had on? Something that's not too expensive but would still help a lot.
Just tell her you knew that she was going to say that, and it doesn’t matter to you because you know she still needs help.
Perhaps you should pick her up and take her to Walmart, and offered to pay for some things for her. But give her a price limit. Then she can pick out think she likes herself, and it will be a bonding moment for you both.
She will never forget that kindness
So do you think that by now that not one person has brought her any clothes at all? Perhaps you should ask her? Doesn’t she have some family. Also, if that’s the only clothes that I had and somebody was offering to help me yes I would go to Walmart in my pajamas. All she has to do is pick out an outfit going to changing room and change right away into the new clothes. 😂🤣
I don't think she really knows anyone in the area. She moved here from another state. I'm just kind of worried logistically plus she'll probably feel embarrassed.
Well, I guess you won’t know until you ask her. At this point in time embarrassment is really the least of your worries. Sometimes you have to step up and people have to be uncomfortable for you to be able to help them if that makes any sense. I pray the Lord, will help you to figure this all out.
Also, I don’t know if you’re male or female, so if you’re a male then, yes, maybe you’re right about that. If you’re female, I think she would be definitely more open to having somebody take her shopping.