Welcome to General Chat - GAW Community Area
This General Chat area started off as a place for people to talk about things that are off topic, however it has quickly evolved into a community and has become an integral part of the GAW experience for many of us.
Based on its evolving needs and plenty of user feedback, we are trying to bring some order and institute some rules. Please make sure you read these rules and participate in the spirit of this community.
Rules for General Chat
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Be respectful to each other. This is of utmost importance, and comments may be removed if deemed not respectful.
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Avoid long drawn out arguments. This should be a place to relax, not to waste your time needlessly.
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Personal anecdotes, puzzles, cute pics/clips - everything welcome
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Please do not spam at the top level. If you have a lot to post each day, try and post them all together in one top level comment
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Try keep things light. If you are bringing in deep stuff, try not to go overboard.
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Things that are clearly on-topic for this board should be posted as a separate post and not here (except if you are new and still getting the feel of this place)
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If you find people violating these rules, deport them rather than start a argument here.
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Feel free to give feedback as these rules are expected to keep evolving
In short, imagine this thread to be a local community hall where we all gather and chat daily. Please be respectful to others in the same way
Prayers for my household would be cool. Probably would be looking at divorce if we had money and if she was working. She is not in love with me any longer and she just feels trapped. God's will- may it be done good or bad or worst. I don't care at this point. And I'm tired of fucking crying.
You do care or you wouldn’t be crying. Don’t give the enemy the satisfaction of destroying your marriage. If you give up, then he wins. The family is the number one target right now. I will pray for you, but you must man up and fight for your marriage. You say she doesn’t love you, we’ll make her fall in love with you again. You need God right now more than ever. Draw close to him, confess unrepented sin. It might get worse before it gets better but with God all things are possible. Don’t be a quitter, we all have your back 🙏🏻
I already told her if she goes off on her own whatever. I dont have a leash on you woman is what i said. I told her i aint goin no fuckin where and fuck any other female. Well you know what i mean. Like the Bible says if a wife go off let her come back and as for man. A man is not to leave his woman. And i shall not. Aint got the energy anyway. Lol honestly don't have the energy to abandon God. Plus Hes all i ever known. Who the fick else is there?
If she makes the choice to leave it’s on her. But don’t let her decisions affect your relationship with God. I’m speaking from experience so I know how it goes south real fast. You make sure that you have done all you can do so that your conscious is clear. I gave my ex every opportunity to keep our marriage together and in a fit of spite he filed for divorce and got engaged before our divorce was final. After a year of being remarried he realized he made a mistake. He made his bed so he had to lie in it. As for me I never remarried and my life is great because my conscious is clear.
Sounds about right. That's the plan pretty much. I aint going anywhere, still got like 12 years left on the mortgage. If she ends up leaving i pray it's just for a short time. I've always tried to be a good husband even if i'm not a ray of fucking sunshine.
Go to church together. Get involved in a women’s and a men’s Bible study. Read your Bible together every day. God can save your marriage. Facts!
Maybe change your username. It’s kind of expressive. 🤷♀️
We stayed away from church for 2 decades and finally started going to one with our son. Seeing everyone being blessed in all they do and meanwhile kind of brushing off anything to do with us, added in witho so many setbacks, i feel like it all broke her. She had a childlike faith before. Everything is broken now. Thank God at least we three know we are part of God's Church, even if we going seperate wtf. I have no illusions. If she ain't in love any more then shes not in love anymore. The username is referencing a verse in Isaiah and the fact that vengeance is God's alone.
We’ll find another church
Try and find a Calvary Chapel. They study the Bible chapter by chapter verse by verse. You can’t go wrong with one of them.
I will be praying for you.
I’ll be praying for you and your wife. Things are hard right now. I’m sorry to read this, fren.