I had a family member molest my nieces… their mother forgives… I want to skin him alive… who is the butthole?
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It’s not spiritually healthy for you to hold onto those feelings but the person should be held accountable and kept away from all children forever. I was molested as a child by a friend’s dad, I don’t hate him, I don’t blame my mom. It caused a lot of shame for me, a lot of self esteem issues, lots of counseling I have worked very hard to protect my own children, and I would never forgive myself if they were abused. I don’t blame you, I’m curious if the mom is trying to be forgiving or if she doesn’t care. I would feel like a failure as a parent for not protecting my kids largely in part because of what happened to me.
This is the correct response
Sorry to hear what you had to go through as a child. We all need to be more vigilant in exposing and punishing these criminals while assisting the victims as best we can.
No one should have to go through that.
I’ve found out as an adult I was a prime target, girls without dads, moms for whatever reason not super involved (I don’t blame my mom, my dad died leaving her with very young kids) I agree no child should ever have to deal with it. Also GenX so sleep overs were a thing- we don’t do sleepovers with our kids or have other people kids sleep at our home. I’m middle aged now so doesn’t affect me like it did in young adulthood. Just sucks there are people out there who take advantage of vulnerable kids