I would never be there in the first place, even in my teens or 20's but we aren't talking about me. I have listened to several hours of Jaguar Wright videos, who has apparently been warning the world about Diddy for 4 years. I am learning from her what goes on at these parties and massage is common so I offered a thought on why they made up these 'baby oil' bottles. A very new and unexperienced person, girl or boy, may think that is the less of all evils is they are MADE to make a choice and it sounds like if they were there, they already had a reason to be in fear of Diddy or his people.